Turn Your Wounds into A Source of Power

Every one of us has been hurt in some way in life and experienced pain, and many of us have gone through great trauma and carries deep wounds as a result of these traumas.

It can be easy to drown in trauma and pain sometimes and become a victim in our own story. Being a victim is not a state which creates healing, positive changes or more of what you want in your life. Being in the state of victimization means you’re giving away your own power.

Being in the victim hood often means you blame others for the suffering you go through and you take no responsibility for your own suffering and life.

“It is not my fault this happened to me, it is not my fault life became this way, and there is nothing I can do about it”, you might say to yourself. You might feel like a victim of your family curses and drama, or of society and all their rules and expectations, or of the experiences that has happened to you in the past.

Don’t misunderstand me, many of us have experienced terrible trauma that has been done to us, where we had no power to do anything about it and we were victims of abuse and unspeakable trauma. Many of us even came into this world with trauma and continued going through so much pain and terrible things throughout the childhood years. So yes, many of us are victims of trauma, but the question is; “Do you continue being a victim for the rest of your life because of these terrible things that happened to you, or do you want to heal those wounds and find your way back to your powerful and healed self?”

Dear soul, when we go through pain and trauma, it’s normal to go into the state of victim hood, it’s completely natural. Do not feel bad, ashamed or guilty for feeling this way. And do not despair, this can change and be healed, and your life can be so different and beautiful.

Being a victim creates stress and low energies in your body, depression and anxiety, anger and mood swings. It is not a good state to be in, not emotionally, mentally, physically or energetically for your overall health.

You can shift out of this state and stop being a victim in your own life and you can turn the pain and wounds into healing, compassion, great lessons and growth. Turn your wounds into a source of power and start being the writer of your own story instead of letting your story be written for you.

You can shed the stories of your past, like the Great Serpent sheds her skin and transforms herself into a new and better version of herself. Shed the old self and become a new, better self.

Walk the path of the Hero and decide who you want to be. And decide if your wounds and hurt will define you and rule your life, making you a victim, or will you take the pain and wounds and transform them into empowering lessons of healing, growth and knowledge, where you rise up from the ashes like the great magnificent Phoenix?

We can either continue writing the same old story from the past, that we have written over and over, where we take no responsibility and just let life happen to us, while we are giving away our power and voice. Or we can open a new book, a beautiful book of possibilities and healing, and start writing a new, wonderful and epic story for ourselves. The Story of the Hero’s Journey, the way back home to your soul.

What story do you chose to write? Will you continue being a victim writing the story about what happened to you? Or, will you become empowered to write your own heroic story, of healing, growth, transformation, joy and beauty?

We have walked this journey too, and we are here to support and guide you on your own journey. This journey isn’t all rainbows and unicorns, it is for sure a journey of beauty, joy, magic and transformation, but it’s also a journey where you need to take a good look at yourself and your shadow sides, and the role you play in your own suffering and how you participate in keeping up the situations and pains in your life, instead of creating healing and change. It’s about being honest with yourself, seeing yourself with new eyes and from new perspectives, and having faith in the process as you walk the healing journey, step by step, while you grow, transform and find your way back home to yourself.

Don’t be afraid, we are here to guide you and help you through this. And we have many tools to help you shift the energies and release old trauma, energies and wounds. We are here to support you on your healing journey, like we have both walked on this healing journey ourselves and had to heal many wounds and faced ourselves in the darkness and done lots inner work too. We were once a victim of the past too, but we have written a new story for ourselves and created a new version of ourselves, because we both woke up one day and asked ourselves the questions; “Who do I want to be? And how do I want to live my life?”

I can from the bottom of my heart say that this healing journey is worth every step and it is a huge gift to yourself to bring yourself into a healed, transformed and higher state of being.